Thursday, September 6, 2012

Where is the love?


I almost didn’t post a blog today because I couldn’t decide what I wanted to post.  I try to always post something that truly resonates with me and therefore may make an impact with some of you.  I figure, if it made a positive difference in my life, perhaps it’ll make a positive difference in someone else’s so I share it. Today, I just couldn’t think of anything I really, really wanted to post.  I realize that those of you who read my blog take time out of your day to do so and I truly value that.  I feel obligated to post the best of what I have to give and trust it’ll speak to those it relates to. Therefore, when I couldn’t feel passionate about posting anything in particular…I almost didn’t post at all.  The husband encouraged me to post and his exact words were “Whatever you post will be epic.” Haha! He’s so sweet and really believes in me which makes me love him all the more…even when he uses words like “epic”. ;-) Anyway, I regrouped and sat still for a moment and then it hit me...Love! I know what you must be thinking…I’ve already posted blogs about love and you’re right, I have.  But this time, I’m just going to rant…I’m not going to my dictionary.com app or to 1 Corinthians 13.  I’m just going to speak from my heart.  So bear with me if you will as I do just that.

There’s a song on the radio right now by Casting Crowns titled, “Jesus, Friend of Sinners” that has been playing a lot lately.  The lyrics to the song are very powerful and I want to share the chorus here:

“Oh Jesus, friend of sinners…Open our eyes to the world at the end of our pointing fingers.  Let our hearts be led by mercy, help us reach with open hearts and open doors. Oh, Jesus friend of sinners, break our hearts for what breaks yours.” 

This next line really stuck out to me and is what inspired me to write this blog:

“Nobody knows what we’re for only what we’re against when we judge the wounded.  What if we put down our signs crossed over the lines and loved like you did?”

It’s so easy to love people that believe like us, look like us, sound like us…but what about those that don’t?  How do we show the love of Jesus if we’re not willing to stop picking at the speck we think we see in someone else’s eye and remove the giant two by four in ours?  This song made me ask myself these questions.  Love is patient and kind…are we? Okay, I lied…I am going back to 1 Corinthians 13 after all.  Ha! In verse 5 the Amplified version reads like this, “It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly.  Love (God’s love in us) does not insist on its own rights or its own way…” God’s love lives in us! This is how we should love…EVERYONE.   It isn’t easy but it’s really simple.  Just love.  It’s already in us…we just have to let it out.  That’s great news! We don’t have to try to love or strive to love…we just have to allow God to love people through us.  People don’t feel loved if they feel judged or looked down upon.  People don’t feel loved if they feel inferior or belittled.  None of us feels loved in those circumstances. 

The Bible says that God so loved the world…not just some of us…not just a few of us…not just the righteous or religious or clean.  No.  God so loved the WORLD, that He gave His only Son, that WHOEVER (not just the righteous or religious or clean, not a particular denomination, not even just church people) believes in Him will have everlasting life!  Who are we to determine who is worthy of that kind of love? I know I am not.  I need His grace and mercy and unfailing love as much as or more than anyone else so I am determined to tap into that love inside me and pay it forward.  I have asked the Lord to forgive me for being judgmental or self-righteous if I have been towards anyone.  I don’t want that in me. I want to overflow with love so that anyone (and I do mean anyone) I come into contact with will feel that love in one way or another. 

Like I said earlier…it isn’t easy.  Sometimes I’m not going to feel like it.  Some people will rub me the wrong way.  Some will hurt me.  Some will disappoint me.  Others, I won’t agree with on anything. But Jesus said the best way we can show we love Him is by loving each other.  His love lives in me, I just need to share it and not hog it all for myself.  By sharing it, it’ll actually increase in me! And you! God is just awesome like that!  And when I do slack, not if…when…that’s when His mercy covers me.  That’s when I drink in His grace and move forward knowing He knows my heart is to do His will…knowing He loves me and that makes me love Him all the more. And knowing I will do better next time because His strength is made perfect in my weakness.  So I won’t beat myself up for having a bad day or bad moment.  His grace is sufficient for me.  His love covers a multitude of sins. God IS love!

I hope this motivated someone, encouraged someone, and/or inspired someone.  I know this post was a little more rambling than my others but I was truly typing out my heart as it flowed from me. I suppose the greatest notion of love is that it is What and Who God is. Knowing Him means knowing love in its purest form. 

Where is the love?  It’s in us! Let’s let it flow!!

 

Until next time…much love and many blessings,

Nancy

2 comments:

  1. Your "heart" opened up for all to see - oh my, what a beautiful treasure!! Your thoughts are relevant and timely for each one of us, individually, as well as corporately as the "church". To have Christ's heart would mean loving everyone - and all of us are a "work in progress" in that area. TY Nancy (the "Awesome")!!

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    1. Aww...thank you so much! I so appreciate the encouragement especially from you. :-)

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